Saturday, September 8, 2012
Fall Fashion- Fall just please come faster!
Oh how I love the fall. Truly. It's my favorite season of the whole year. It's like a warm fuzzy feeling of happiness when the first leaf falls off the trees. I honestly cannnnnot wait to see all the new fall trends and fashion for the year of 2012!!! :D Ahh! So exciting.
So anyways here are some trends that I think will be sticking around this year and then maybe some that I think won't! Feel free to add any comments about what you think will be in and out this upcoming fall!! ❤
1.) HOODIES
Ah, yes. The hoodie sweatshirt. Let me start off by saying they never ever go out of style. They've been around for quite some time and I don't think there going anywhere this year. There too fun! You can wear a casual one with jeans or shorts.. Or you could wear your cutest Victoria Secret hoodie for a cuter more stylish pop:)
POWER TO THE HOODIES!
2.) UGGS
Okay, so, there are a lot of mixed feelings every year about weather or not the Ugg boots will be brought back by teenagers or if we've all had enough of our Australian 200$ sheepskin boots. Personally I think it's tradition. The second fall comes around the corner everyone throws them on and wear them everywhere. I mean how could you not. They are soooo comfy. I literally never take mine off in the Winter and Fall. It's like a religion lemme tell ya.
3.) JEANS *skinny-bootcut*
I hate boot cut jeans! There I said it. Nonononono! There so unattractive! And unflattering really. Skinny jeans will defiantly be the "it" jean of the Fall and Winter this year;)
4.) YOGA PANTS
Hell yes the biggest necessity in my book most defiantly. Boys love em girls love em. Lotalove for the yogas<3
&&&!!!
5.) I would have to say leather boots with a cute sweater and jeans. Combo, i know, I cheated but I had to fit all I these in my list of five. There honestly a must have for fall. A nice tall leather boot (brown or black) is like a girls bestfriend other than her phone. No lie.
:) and that's my list. Time for y'all to add some! So come on don't be shy throw some idea out there!
So anyways here are some trends that I think will be sticking around this year and then maybe some that I think won't! Feel free to add any comments about what you think will be in and out this upcoming fall!! ❤
1.) HOODIES
Ah, yes. The hoodie sweatshirt. Let me start off by saying they never ever go out of style. They've been around for quite some time and I don't think there going anywhere this year. There too fun! You can wear a casual one with jeans or shorts.. Or you could wear your cutest Victoria Secret hoodie for a cuter more stylish pop:)
POWER TO THE HOODIES!
2.) UGGS
Okay, so, there are a lot of mixed feelings every year about weather or not the Ugg boots will be brought back by teenagers or if we've all had enough of our Australian 200$ sheepskin boots. Personally I think it's tradition. The second fall comes around the corner everyone throws them on and wear them everywhere. I mean how could you not. They are soooo comfy. I literally never take mine off in the Winter and Fall. It's like a religion lemme tell ya.
3.) JEANS *skinny-bootcut*
I hate boot cut jeans! There I said it. Nonononono! There so unattractive! And unflattering really. Skinny jeans will defiantly be the "it" jean of the Fall and Winter this year;)
4.) YOGA PANTS
Hell yes the biggest necessity in my book most defiantly. Boys love em girls love em. Lotalove for the yogas<3
&&&!!!
5.) I would have to say leather boots with a cute sweater and jeans. Combo, i know, I cheated but I had to fit all I these in my list of five. There honestly a must have for fall. A nice tall leather boot (brown or black) is like a girls bestfriend other than her phone. No lie.
:) and that's my list. Time for y'all to add some! So come on don't be shy throw some idea out there!
Tuesday, December 13, 2011
Welcome Back
Well helllllo there:) miss me?
Ok so I've been gone for a while.. And I mean awhile. And you guys havent heard advice in awhile. And I know I'm sortof rushing back into things but I think I sort of need to make something clear. It's a new life lesson that I have recently just learned while dating a boy that had more issues than I thought was possible. Ladies. Take it from me when I say.."DO NOT DATE A PILL HEAD/ALCOHOLIC/SUICIDAL BOY. YOU CAN NOT HELP OR FIX THEM."
That's a promise. Like seriously, it's not going to work.
I recently was dating a boy that I thought I could help an change in some serious ways. He was an ex-pill head a bit of an alcohol problem and a huge suicidal tendency. I though I was like the virgin Mary sent from heaven an that I was the one to help him set his life up for success. Yeah. Well I was wrong. Shit happened and now I'm sitting here thinking "What the he'll was that Steph?! Your a fucking moron!!!" and it's true. WTF was I thinking.
First of all the relationship was more of a friendship in my eyes, second of all I never saw him and thirdly I am just stupid and liked like two other guy while I dated him. Bitch? Yes, you could say that. Unfortunately that's the problem. I'm not a bitch. I couldn't tell him off. And that's why I'm here. Back agian and typing about my problems hoping that it will help all of you beautiful women in the long run.
The next few posts I make will be about abusive relationships and I hope you all take the serious time needed and read them.
Thanks!!!<3
-Stephanie
Ok so I've been gone for a while.. And I mean awhile. And you guys havent heard advice in awhile. And I know I'm sortof rushing back into things but I think I sort of need to make something clear. It's a new life lesson that I have recently just learned while dating a boy that had more issues than I thought was possible. Ladies. Take it from me when I say.."DO NOT DATE A PILL HEAD/ALCOHOLIC/SUICIDAL BOY. YOU CAN NOT HELP OR FIX THEM."
That's a promise. Like seriously, it's not going to work.
I recently was dating a boy that I thought I could help an change in some serious ways. He was an ex-pill head a bit of an alcohol problem and a huge suicidal tendency. I though I was like the virgin Mary sent from heaven an that I was the one to help him set his life up for success. Yeah. Well I was wrong. Shit happened and now I'm sitting here thinking "What the he'll was that Steph?! Your a fucking moron!!!" and it's true. WTF was I thinking.
First of all the relationship was more of a friendship in my eyes, second of all I never saw him and thirdly I am just stupid and liked like two other guy while I dated him. Bitch? Yes, you could say that. Unfortunately that's the problem. I'm not a bitch. I couldn't tell him off. And that's why I'm here. Back agian and typing about my problems hoping that it will help all of you beautiful women in the long run.
The next few posts I make will be about abusive relationships and I hope you all take the serious time needed and read them.
Thanks!!!<3
-Stephanie
Thursday, August 18, 2011
Pics that you dont wanna miss!
oh my FUCKIN GOD, i always feel like that before school!
i likee<3
yeah thats not my bedroom..i just wish..
GEMME ONE.
what i could use right about now...
One of those days...
I am currently listening to the Goo Goo Dolls- Iris. Yeah that pretty much defines my day right there. It usually happens when you think you finally found someone whose worth telling your secrets too, and they run away. It's a dissapointment.
Well actually my day was fantastic. ISH. Last night I slept over Bridgets house..haha we did the dumb things that girls do at sleepovers, and I woke up early to go to the dentist with my mom. It was all good. 11:30 appointment turned into a 12:30 one but thats ok I guess? And I read this article in PEOPLE mag. and I honestly found it to be the most memorizing event of my summer. Honestly I forget the boys name from the article even though I promised I would remeber because it was like I said it completly facinated me. His last name, thank god it just popped into my head!, was Neighbors. His mother was 18 when she was murdered, when he was just a baby. Now being 15, he's trying to slove the case that still hasnt been solved. His mother was shot and thrown in a creek with chains and a cinderblock tied to her. I know your all probably thinking what the hell does that have to do with your blog? And it dosnt..but I cant get his moms face out of my mind. The picture of her was beautiful. She was younge, had dark features...and she had a life to live far beyond that of what she had. Its honestly tearing me apart...how can the police just give up on a case like that? Even though I do remeber it saying something about no motive...what does that matter? Cant you find out who killed her?
I guess the point is...This kids love for his mom is stronger and more vibrant than I think most people will ever know. He didnt even know her and yet he sees it as his duty to find out what really happened...I wish I had courage like that kid does haha..I wish everyone did. Thats the heart and spirit everyones missing these days...
So yeah. I've been obsessing over that all day. Had to get it out. The kids got a facebook page and everything for it. He's got some real heart, if you ask me. I'll try to find it and post a link to show you guys. A little dreary but thats life, eh?
Ok so after the dentist I show up at my house and my brothers are like "OHMMMGGGG! COME HERE! LOOK OUTSIDE!" and I'm all "Ok? Whatever." And I look outside and on my back porch is a golden lab.
:O AHHHHHHHHHHHH!
yeah turns out it was my neighbors and I couldnt keep it like people do on tv shows.
Then I realize me and J havnt talked in like 5 days. OOOPPPPS! Yeah well actually we talked yesterday..i said something as a joke..he didnt find it funny...he legit will not answer the god damn phone. I tried everything...I poured my heart out for this kid and he just will not budge. UGH SO ANNOYING. So thats prolly over....i f-ed up...again?
Now im just rambling about random stuff. ill post something real in a minute haha i need to regroup.
Well actually my day was fantastic. ISH. Last night I slept over Bridgets house..haha we did the dumb things that girls do at sleepovers, and I woke up early to go to the dentist with my mom. It was all good. 11:30 appointment turned into a 12:30 one but thats ok I guess? And I read this article in PEOPLE mag. and I honestly found it to be the most memorizing event of my summer. Honestly I forget the boys name from the article even though I promised I would remeber because it was like I said it completly facinated me. His last name, thank god it just popped into my head!, was Neighbors. His mother was 18 when she was murdered, when he was just a baby. Now being 15, he's trying to slove the case that still hasnt been solved. His mother was shot and thrown in a creek with chains and a cinderblock tied to her. I know your all probably thinking what the hell does that have to do with your blog? And it dosnt..but I cant get his moms face out of my mind. The picture of her was beautiful. She was younge, had dark features...and she had a life to live far beyond that of what she had. Its honestly tearing me apart...how can the police just give up on a case like that? Even though I do remeber it saying something about no motive...what does that matter? Cant you find out who killed her?
I guess the point is...This kids love for his mom is stronger and more vibrant than I think most people will ever know. He didnt even know her and yet he sees it as his duty to find out what really happened...I wish I had courage like that kid does haha..I wish everyone did. Thats the heart and spirit everyones missing these days...
So yeah. I've been obsessing over that all day. Had to get it out. The kids got a facebook page and everything for it. He's got some real heart, if you ask me. I'll try to find it and post a link to show you guys. A little dreary but thats life, eh?
Ok so after the dentist I show up at my house and my brothers are like "OHMMMGGGG! COME HERE! LOOK OUTSIDE!" and I'm all "Ok? Whatever." And I look outside and on my back porch is a golden lab.
:O AHHHHHHHHHHHH!
yeah turns out it was my neighbors and I couldnt keep it like people do on tv shows.
Then I realize me and J havnt talked in like 5 days. OOOPPPPS! Yeah well actually we talked yesterday..i said something as a joke..he didnt find it funny...he legit will not answer the god damn phone. I tried everything...I poured my heart out for this kid and he just will not budge. UGH SO ANNOYING. So thats prolly over....i f-ed up...again?
Now im just rambling about random stuff. ill post something real in a minute haha i need to regroup.
Monday, August 8, 2011
(:sMiLe..ha...ha... yeah right. -.-
I've been gone for awhile. Had to get some unwanted shit back together. So heres and update of my falling apart life. My bestfriend just dumped me for her boyfriend. My other bestfriends parents found liquor in their house...of mine.. and are prolly going to be calling my parents tomorrow. My grandmother is dieing and I failed my licence test. All in this past week or so. FABULOUS. I'm freaking out. What the hell is going on? Who dumps there bestfriend of forever for a fucking boy?! A desprate son of a bitch thats who. And the fucking worst part is I have to car pool with her for Volleyball Camp this week..and see her when we have practices. ALL BECAUSE OF A BOY. A boy I had first a while back too. A gross, mean, perverted asshole. I cannot wait for him to dump her. Usually I would never say something like that...but under the circumstances.. I'm pissed. Beyond pissed to be honest. I cant even talk about it right now... ew.
Ok, so on top of that I stole a bottle of Tequila from my Mom. Ugh I know, fucking dumb teenager move. IDK WHAT THE FUCK I WAS THINKING. Lets be serious. I drank the whole bottle left not even a shot in it. And now were gunna get our asses whooped! The one time you do something stupid it bites you in the ass right away! WTF. Never agian, thats all I have to say. I'm scared shitless. When my parents find out....oh good god. My grandma is status quo...shes sick. It's sad and depressing and aweful and ugh I can't even talk about it let alone go visit her... And I failed my licence test and everyone keeps asking me how I did.
"HOW'D I DO?! I FAILED THATS HOW I DID."
Please shoot me.
Oh and the carpooling, yeah its suicide thank you very much.
My windows looking like a way out to me.
China here I come? Cali maybe? KILLLLLL MEEEEE PLEASEE.
Ok, so on top of that I stole a bottle of Tequila from my Mom. Ugh I know, fucking dumb teenager move. IDK WHAT THE FUCK I WAS THINKING. Lets be serious. I drank the whole bottle left not even a shot in it. And now were gunna get our asses whooped! The one time you do something stupid it bites you in the ass right away! WTF. Never agian, thats all I have to say. I'm scared shitless. When my parents find out....oh good god. My grandma is status quo...shes sick. It's sad and depressing and aweful and ugh I can't even talk about it let alone go visit her... And I failed my licence test and everyone keeps asking me how I did.
"HOW'D I DO?! I FAILED THATS HOW I DID."
Please shoot me.
Oh and the carpooling, yeah its suicide thank you very much.
My windows looking like a way out to me.
China here I come? Cali maybe? KILLLLLL MEEEEE PLEASEE.
Sunday, July 31, 2011
12 year olds and...bjs?
"Kids these days."
No. Trust me its not us. Its the world that we live in. The pressures to be a model these days is rediculous. I know there were pressures to be sexy and HAVE sex back "in those days", but not like today.
I think the first time someone asked me if I was a vergin was when I was 12. 12!!!!!!! But its not uncommon unfortunatly. Little 12 year old girls are being forced to grow up in this world and do the things they shouldnt be until high school. The pressures to wear the right thing and say the right things is emence. Personally, I think its quite gross to be honest. Why should a 12 year old girl be thrown into a school setting where everything is about looks and sex. THERE 12 YEARS OLD FOR GOD SAKES!
My brother Nick just turned 13 recently. His bestfriend Max and him are always hanging out with the other boys from school. But a few days ago I talked to Max's mom when we were having a girls day, and she said that shes not allowing Max to go to the library anymore. Wanna know why?! Because these slutty little 12 year old girls are blowing boys behind the book shelves. OH MY GOD! Nick will most certainatly never be going within 10 ft of that library ever agian. But, as i said before...its not their fault! These kids are being thrown into activities that they honestly should not be until at least 16-18. Its sad. Why should they be forced to give up there innocence at such an age?! When I was 12 I was outside catching butterflies in my net after school, not giving blow jobs!
No. Trust me its not us. Its the world that we live in. The pressures to be a model these days is rediculous. I know there were pressures to be sexy and HAVE sex back "in those days", but not like today.
I think the first time someone asked me if I was a vergin was when I was 12. 12!!!!!!! But its not uncommon unfortunatly. Little 12 year old girls are being forced to grow up in this world and do the things they shouldnt be until high school. The pressures to wear the right thing and say the right things is emence. Personally, I think its quite gross to be honest. Why should a 12 year old girl be thrown into a school setting where everything is about looks and sex. THERE 12 YEARS OLD FOR GOD SAKES!
My brother Nick just turned 13 recently. His bestfriend Max and him are always hanging out with the other boys from school. But a few days ago I talked to Max's mom when we were having a girls day, and she said that shes not allowing Max to go to the library anymore. Wanna know why?! Because these slutty little 12 year old girls are blowing boys behind the book shelves. OH MY GOD! Nick will most certainatly never be going within 10 ft of that library ever agian. But, as i said before...its not their fault! These kids are being thrown into activities that they honestly should not be until at least 16-18. Its sad. Why should they be forced to give up there innocence at such an age?! When I was 12 I was outside catching butterflies in my net after school, not giving blow jobs!
These comments are ahmazing(:
Wow, in like the past few days ive been getting some awesome mail from you guys! your comments are really sweet and positive! I love helping you guys and just talking about ish so keep the comments comming!!
Long Distance
Dosnt work. Yehp, those are my thought on long distance relationships. I'm currently in one..well sort of.
For the past 4 months or so I've been talking to a guy, that I like to refer to as J. He's sweet, funny, and is like obsessed with working out. He recently just moved to Flo and I'm pissed to be perfectly honest. Girls from his new town are alway writting on his wall on fb and it just pisses me off. I have pretty mad jelousy issues from the begining. I actually started getting mad at him for these girls. Even though he wasnt like "oh hey ladies write on my wall ;)" it still feels shitty to see girls throwing themselves at your boyfriend. Though me and J have decided were not putting a lable on our relatioship because of the distance, we're still tequnically dating. So when i saw how many girls were all over him I just assumed he was doen with me. But he reasured me he dosnt like any of these girls.
BUT. AGIAN I DO NOT AGREE WITH LONG DISTANCE.
So do i keep this going? Or try to find someone else to be with?
Im not quiet sure.
For the past 4 months or so I've been talking to a guy, that I like to refer to as J. He's sweet, funny, and is like obsessed with working out. He recently just moved to Flo and I'm pissed to be perfectly honest. Girls from his new town are alway writting on his wall on fb and it just pisses me off. I have pretty mad jelousy issues from the begining. I actually started getting mad at him for these girls. Even though he wasnt like "oh hey ladies write on my wall ;)" it still feels shitty to see girls throwing themselves at your boyfriend. Though me and J have decided were not putting a lable on our relatioship because of the distance, we're still tequnically dating. So when i saw how many girls were all over him I just assumed he was doen with me. But he reasured me he dosnt like any of these girls.
BUT. AGIAN I DO NOT AGREE WITH LONG DISTANCE.
So do i keep this going? Or try to find someone else to be with?
Im not quiet sure.
Friday, July 29, 2011
Pics that you dont wanna miss!
I love this. Just the way the light glares in the corner and the way the flowers are really highlighted..
oh you artsy huh?
This is one of my absolute favs! I do this with my friends water camera all the time.
she's kinda a bad bitch
omg
hahahhahahah vinny!
mmm!
mhm hmm work it gurl
oh shit
awh bbs
damn shawtay
hahahah!The Boy Factor:
Every girl wonders what gets her crush to crush back and I think I've come up with a pretty good list to get jooo dream boy to look at you the way you look at him.(: ENJOY!!
whats hot to guys?
welll...ill tell you!
The list:
* Keep in mind I got most of these from my guy friends..so there actually legit. This list is if you have a bf or not!! Dosnt matter(:
1. Guys like when girls leave there hair simple..pick down and straigh or wavy or curls. Something. Guys like when your hairs even. And if your going to put it up dont keep taking it down and redoing it. (apparently they think its annoying when girls play with their hair too much.) One thing I just learned is they honestly dont pay attention to if your wearing a head band and if they do its a turn off. GET RID OF THE HEADBANDS LADIES!
2.) Make-up. Not too much..boys dont like looking at a caked face. They get it you want your skin to look flawless..but with too much make-up on it magnifys your bad skin...so lay off! Eye liner and mascara is all you need. I promise you. (I'm not to good with coverup i have pretty good skin so i never use it, but, only use when necisary!!)
3.) Lip gloss is your friend. They think its hot. So wear it. (: **No lipstick, cause honestly no guy wants to get it smeared all over his face when he kisses you. And its just tacky.
4.) Guys like when you bite on the end of your pen..i dont get the facination but this kid in my elements class used to STARE at me when id bite on my pen...And there I was think it was just a bad habit! Oh and the lower lip thing! i always lick my lips and bite the lower one when im nervous haha TURN ON(;
5.) YOGA PANTS. Wear them at least once a week. Guys absolutly love them! (Pretty obvious why haha!).Make sure you dont have underwear lines..girls will probably judge you on that more then boys. But just to be safe I added it!
6.) Be yourself. Seriously if a guy likes you its because he likes your personality and your looks. Don't act all different when you talk to a guy.
7.) Ok so thissss is like key!!!!!!! Most guys dont like the whole "tiny girl " aspect. LEGIT EVERY GUY I'VE TALKED TO WOULD RATHER A CURVY GIRL. Surprising? No. No guy want to think "shit might break her in half." So you can be healthy skinny but not too skinny. They just find it unattractive.
8.) Stop dying your hair. End of story. Guys can see your roots...not that thats what they look for on a girl but guys like natural hair...dying the shit out of your hair just looks bad. Leave it alone.
9.) So this is obvious. Guys like boobs! But what size is what a guy wants. LISTEN TO THIS.
Me: what size is the best?
M: honestly it depends on the girl.
SOoOoOOOoooo ladies! As much as yall say "I want bigger boobs!" stfu. I have them and you can take them if you want lol...Guys say that it depends on the girls size. If its a tiny girl that has C's its too much. So Be happy with your ABC's and be happy you dont have D's!
10.) Never degrate yourself. I make this mistake all the time. I joke about making a sandwich and they never let it go. "Bitch go make me a sanwichhh!" is the worst. It will litterally drive you crazy. Never be the one to say something like that first.
11.) Neverr ever ever say your not pretty. Never say what you hate about yourself. Its not attractive. Be confident but not too confident. Guys dont like hearing girls call themselves fat. END OF STORY!
12.) LACY && SEXY! Guys like it yeah. But its also "hot" when girls wear boy short underwear and a plain bra. You dont have to be uncomfortable to be sexy!!
13.) Dont flaunt your smarts tooooo much. Obviously its a great feature to be smart, and most guys love it! But being outsmarted by a girl 24/7 is not fun for a guy in anyway, so let him win sometimes!
14.) Girls who are good with kids. This is sweet. My bestfriend told me he thinks its cute that I'm good with kids because it shows I'll be a good mother someday!..(ha oh god i hope so..)
15.) Ok back to the sexy stuff! Guys like it when you wear oversized sweatshirts with sweatpants. They think it show that your confident and like to be comfortable..so when your just hanging out watching a movie dont get all dressed up. Be comfortable. And not only will it make the atmosphere more relaxed but the conversation will go better!
16.) Muffin!!!!!!! haha uh oh! the dreaded muffin top! WAIT WHAT?! WHAT THIS?! hot? muffin top? same sentence? yehp! thats right gurllllzz! Guys are obsessed with a little muffin top. They think its sexy. WHY?! I really dont know. Personally I'm insecure about mine, but if they think its hot, power to the mufftop!
17.) So bed hair. The whole skrunched hair thing..i do it alll the time! It's just fun! And its cute and goes with boho clothes extremely well. And apperently its hotttttttt. Try it! I use that Aussie- catch the wave or scruntch hair stylier. Its ahmazing. I'd die without it! Their hair products are honestly great!
18.) Most guys do like romance, but when girls are always complaining its a turn off and that will just go right down the drain. Just dont complain or start arguments over stupid things. They find it extremely annoying to be quiet honest.
19.) Ok, so guys really hate chick flicks. Lets stop putting them through it. Unless you get lucky and get the guy that acctaully dosnt mind them. But guys say they lie about this just to get some action. So ladies. How bout you watch that dumb action movie and save the girlys for the girlys.
20.) Dont text "where are you", "what are you doing", "who are you with" and , "why arnt you answering" all in the same conversation. Guys dont like when girls get to clingy and needy, I always get this way. I have an obsessive personality(: what can i say? (;
21.) Dont expect a guy to suck up to you all the time, Listen i get it. You want him to complement you and say he loves you often..but you have to put in the same effort. Tell him he smells nice or that he looks good as much as possible. Boost eachothers confidence.
*Wow..im learning just as much as you guys...*
22.) "When girls say they want to sit down and talk, guys hear "I'm pissed." You never want to talk about things we like, like sports, so telling us you want to talk sends us the signal that you want to bring up something that's bothering you. You might fool us once in a while by actually wanting to talk about something the other sex is interested in."- JS
oh wow...haha im never saying we need to talk to my boyfriend ever agian.. i guess we need to talk about golf, football, and xbox more often..or even better play cod with them! haha
23.) Guys love working out. They love girls who work out with them. They say its like a bonding experience..but only do it if your gunna take it seriously and actually go for a run with him. AND DONT COMPLAIN! TURN OFFFFFFFFF! He just wants to work out..he really dosnt need to hear how your legs, arms, feet hurt ect. And he dosnt need to talk about lifes problems when hes working out. Working out is like a guys time to just go without thinking. So stfu and run bitch, haha(: Guys like when they can just go for a run with there girl so try it for him!
24.) THE SKINNY JEAN! Guys like them they think the darker the better too! And on the fashion side ive actually got commplimented for wearing skinny jeans and flats with my hair scrunched and a holister sweater. That was my casual day and a straight guy told me i look pretty. SO THERE YA GO!
24.) Dont try to become "besties!" with a guys bestfriends. That just pisses them off. There girlfriend is there girlfriend and there guy friends are there guy friends. There two separate worlds and should stay that way! Guys like when there girlfriends get along with their homies but dont get to close. Jealousy is hard to beat when it comes to these things!
25.) There is such thing as girl cockieness. Do not flaunt the fact that the guy in aisle two of the grocery story was checking out your ass and that he was tottaly hot..not to your boyfriend at least. Its annoying. after awhile he'll prolly off you and tell you to go date him if he was so amazing. BAD< BAD<BAD! Tell him you'd never want to be with anyone else as often as you can.
26.) Aniversarys. NEED TO STOP! Your dating. Just stop honestly like hun i GET IT! Two years is a good amount of time. But you have 50+ years to have aniversarys if you get married. Guys dont need you to buy them stuff and really you dont need him to buy you stuff!
27.) Girls. Do not expect your boyfriend to love your friends. Sometimes friends get invloved too much. Guys arnt in it for you and your crazy bestfriend.
28.) OK! I get it. You're not crazy, and its angering when he says you are! But if hes saying it theres a reason. So shut your trap for three seconds and listen to what he has to say! Guys like to be heard.
29.) Ok this is the worst double standard that girls make up in there pretty little heads. If it’s possible that there is anything worse than calling us crazy, it’s comparing us to other girls. "I know it’s a double standard that we should be allowed to drool over any shirtless picture of Zac Efron we find in Us Weekly, while freaking out when you make a comment about any female celeb in a bikini. You might not realize it, but we automatically compare ourselves to every other girl on the planet, so saying another girl is hot makes us think we’re not good enough. Crazy, maybe, but we’re just being honest." No baby doll your not being honest. Your being a fucking moron. Mardon my lauguage, but really? When we point out a sexy picture of taytaylauts on a mag page you dont think a guy dosnt go: " oh, he's a celebrity, got money, a body, and can fu**ing change into a werewolf... well.. no chance in hell im gonna be that, im screwed." So dont be selfish you have to think of other sometimes! Keep it to yah self!
30.) LAST ONE FOR THE DAY! Boys love girls. Girls love boys. And guys love that girls love them(:
whats hot to guys?
welll...ill tell you!
The list:
* Keep in mind I got most of these from my guy friends..so there actually legit. This list is if you have a bf or not!! Dosnt matter(:
1. Guys like when girls leave there hair simple..pick down and straigh or wavy or curls. Something. Guys like when your hairs even. And if your going to put it up dont keep taking it down and redoing it. (apparently they think its annoying when girls play with their hair too much.) One thing I just learned is they honestly dont pay attention to if your wearing a head band and if they do its a turn off. GET RID OF THE HEADBANDS LADIES!
2.) Make-up. Not too much..boys dont like looking at a caked face. They get it you want your skin to look flawless..but with too much make-up on it magnifys your bad skin...so lay off! Eye liner and mascara is all you need. I promise you. (I'm not to good with coverup i have pretty good skin so i never use it, but, only use when necisary!!)
3.) Lip gloss is your friend. They think its hot. So wear it. (: **No lipstick, cause honestly no guy wants to get it smeared all over his face when he kisses you. And its just tacky.
4.) Guys like when you bite on the end of your pen..i dont get the facination but this kid in my elements class used to STARE at me when id bite on my pen...And there I was think it was just a bad habit! Oh and the lower lip thing! i always lick my lips and bite the lower one when im nervous haha TURN ON(;
5.) YOGA PANTS. Wear them at least once a week. Guys absolutly love them! (Pretty obvious why haha!).Make sure you dont have underwear lines..girls will probably judge you on that more then boys. But just to be safe I added it!
6.) Be yourself. Seriously if a guy likes you its because he likes your personality and your looks. Don't act all different when you talk to a guy.
7.) Ok so thissss is like key!!!!!!! Most guys dont like the whole "tiny girl " aspect. LEGIT EVERY GUY I'VE TALKED TO WOULD RATHER A CURVY GIRL. Surprising? No. No guy want to think "shit might break her in half." So you can be healthy skinny but not too skinny. They just find it unattractive.
8.) Stop dying your hair. End of story. Guys can see your roots...not that thats what they look for on a girl but guys like natural hair...dying the shit out of your hair just looks bad. Leave it alone.
9.) So this is obvious. Guys like boobs! But what size is what a guy wants. LISTEN TO THIS.
Me: what size is the best?
M: honestly it depends on the girl.
SOoOoOOOoooo ladies! As much as yall say "I want bigger boobs!" stfu. I have them and you can take them if you want lol...Guys say that it depends on the girls size. If its a tiny girl that has C's its too much. So Be happy with your ABC's and be happy you dont have D's!
10.) Never degrate yourself. I make this mistake all the time. I joke about making a sandwich and they never let it go. "Bitch go make me a sanwichhh!" is the worst. It will litterally drive you crazy. Never be the one to say something like that first.
11.) Neverr ever ever say your not pretty. Never say what you hate about yourself. Its not attractive. Be confident but not too confident. Guys dont like hearing girls call themselves fat. END OF STORY!
12.) LACY && SEXY! Guys like it yeah. But its also "hot" when girls wear boy short underwear and a plain bra. You dont have to be uncomfortable to be sexy!!
13.) Dont flaunt your smarts tooooo much. Obviously its a great feature to be smart, and most guys love it! But being outsmarted by a girl 24/7 is not fun for a guy in anyway, so let him win sometimes!
14.) Girls who are good with kids. This is sweet. My bestfriend told me he thinks its cute that I'm good with kids because it shows I'll be a good mother someday!..(ha oh god i hope so..)
15.) Ok back to the sexy stuff! Guys like it when you wear oversized sweatshirts with sweatpants. They think it show that your confident and like to be comfortable..so when your just hanging out watching a movie dont get all dressed up. Be comfortable. And not only will it make the atmosphere more relaxed but the conversation will go better!
16.) Muffin!!!!!!! haha uh oh! the dreaded muffin top! WAIT WHAT?! WHAT THIS?! hot? muffin top? same sentence? yehp! thats right gurllllzz! Guys are obsessed with a little muffin top. They think its sexy. WHY?! I really dont know. Personally I'm insecure about mine, but if they think its hot, power to the mufftop!
17.) So bed hair. The whole skrunched hair thing..i do it alll the time! It's just fun! And its cute and goes with boho clothes extremely well. And apperently its hotttttttt. Try it! I use that Aussie- catch the wave or scruntch hair stylier. Its ahmazing. I'd die without it! Their hair products are honestly great!
18.) Most guys do like romance, but when girls are always complaining its a turn off and that will just go right down the drain. Just dont complain or start arguments over stupid things. They find it extremely annoying to be quiet honest.
19.) Ok, so guys really hate chick flicks. Lets stop putting them through it. Unless you get lucky and get the guy that acctaully dosnt mind them. But guys say they lie about this just to get some action. So ladies. How bout you watch that dumb action movie and save the girlys for the girlys.
20.) Dont text "where are you", "what are you doing", "who are you with" and , "why arnt you answering" all in the same conversation. Guys dont like when girls get to clingy and needy, I always get this way. I have an obsessive personality(: what can i say? (;
21.) Dont expect a guy to suck up to you all the time, Listen i get it. You want him to complement you and say he loves you often..but you have to put in the same effort. Tell him he smells nice or that he looks good as much as possible. Boost eachothers confidence.
*Wow..im learning just as much as you guys...*
22.) "When girls say they want to sit down and talk, guys hear "I'm pissed." You never want to talk about things we like, like sports, so telling us you want to talk sends us the signal that you want to bring up something that's bothering you. You might fool us once in a while by actually wanting to talk about something the other sex is interested in."- JS
oh wow...haha im never saying we need to talk to my boyfriend ever agian.. i guess we need to talk about golf, football, and xbox more often..or even better play cod with them! haha
23.) Guys love working out. They love girls who work out with them. They say its like a bonding experience..but only do it if your gunna take it seriously and actually go for a run with him. AND DONT COMPLAIN! TURN OFFFFFFFFF! He just wants to work out..he really dosnt need to hear how your legs, arms, feet hurt ect. And he dosnt need to talk about lifes problems when hes working out. Working out is like a guys time to just go without thinking. So stfu and run bitch, haha(: Guys like when they can just go for a run with there girl so try it for him!
24.) THE SKINNY JEAN! Guys like them they think the darker the better too! And on the fashion side ive actually got commplimented for wearing skinny jeans and flats with my hair scrunched and a holister sweater. That was my casual day and a straight guy told me i look pretty. SO THERE YA GO!
24.) Dont try to become "besties!" with a guys bestfriends. That just pisses them off. There girlfriend is there girlfriend and there guy friends are there guy friends. There two separate worlds and should stay that way! Guys like when there girlfriends get along with their homies but dont get to close. Jealousy is hard to beat when it comes to these things!
25.) There is such thing as girl cockieness. Do not flaunt the fact that the guy in aisle two of the grocery story was checking out your ass and that he was tottaly hot..not to your boyfriend at least. Its annoying. after awhile he'll prolly off you and tell you to go date him if he was so amazing. BAD< BAD<BAD! Tell him you'd never want to be with anyone else as often as you can.
26.) Aniversarys. NEED TO STOP! Your dating. Just stop honestly like hun i GET IT! Two years is a good amount of time. But you have 50+ years to have aniversarys if you get married. Guys dont need you to buy them stuff and really you dont need him to buy you stuff!
27.) Girls. Do not expect your boyfriend to love your friends. Sometimes friends get invloved too much. Guys arnt in it for you and your crazy bestfriend.
28.) OK! I get it. You're not crazy, and its angering when he says you are! But if hes saying it theres a reason. So shut your trap for three seconds and listen to what he has to say! Guys like to be heard.
29.) Ok this is the worst double standard that girls make up in there pretty little heads. If it’s possible that there is anything worse than calling us crazy, it’s comparing us to other girls. "I know it’s a double standard that we should be allowed to drool over any shirtless picture of Zac Efron we find in Us Weekly, while freaking out when you make a comment about any female celeb in a bikini. You might not realize it, but we automatically compare ourselves to every other girl on the planet, so saying another girl is hot makes us think we’re not good enough. Crazy, maybe, but we’re just being honest." No baby doll your not being honest. Your being a fucking moron. Mardon my lauguage, but really? When we point out a sexy picture of taytaylauts on a mag page you dont think a guy dosnt go: " oh, he's a celebrity, got money, a body, and can fu**ing change into a werewolf... well.. no chance in hell im gonna be that, im screwed." So dont be selfish you have to think of other sometimes! Keep it to yah self!
30.) LAST ONE FOR THE DAY! Boys love girls. Girls love boys. And guys love that girls love them(:
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Nice Boys(:
The nice boy. Does he excist? YES, but there are very few that will actually go out of their ways to be that kind of boy for a girl. Its rare. So ladies, if you've got one of them...be the nice girl ik you know how to be, and hold onto that boy for dear life..because truth is he'll always be there for you and not all boys are like that. :)
The Eye's
What do you see, when you look at me?
Do you see how much these eyes cry?
These things I've seen.
I wish I hadnt seen.
Duh?
My friend just texted me! HAHA oh goddddddd...
L: hey omg. so he ( her ex) just texted me and was like hey i miss you. wtf do i say?!?!
Me: say "hey!! ohmygosh! i was just thinking of you...i was hoping i could talk to you about getting a life and stop texting the me? maybe you could text the girl you cheated on me with? idk just an idea?"
L: hey omg. so he ( her ex) just texted me and was like hey i miss you. wtf do i say?!?!
Me: say "hey!! ohmygosh! i was just thinking of you...i was hoping i could talk to you about getting a life and stop texting the me? maybe you could text the girl you cheated on me with? idk just an idea?"
Can We Still Be Friends?- by Kathleen Sheppard
| I was cold and hurting lost out in the night wandering and searching for heaven's light I saw the night sky clearing when you spread your rainbow wings But little did I know what joy you would bring From that moment on a friendship did start you kissed away my tears and sheltered my heart I bless the day God sent him from above But then I grew fearful for I had fallen in love I told you this feeling and what did you say? You said you liked our friendship and that's how it would stay I cried for a friendship I thought I lost But then felt your warm, gentle hand You then whispered in my ear that by my side you'll forever stand <3 |
Ok girls! -The cell phone talk-
Like I mentioned in one of my past posts, EVERYONE has cell phones this day. And that being said its pretty much a given that you have the boy you likes cell phone number in there. RIGHT?! Just because you asked your bestfriends friend of a friend for the # dosnt make you a stalker or anything...
Or maybe he texted you first! You didnt even have his number and he texted you out of nowhere after you smiled at him in the hallway or something! Most likely your stalking him though and got it from your 'friend of a friend", lets be serious. But I'm getting ahead of myself!! Why is it that everyone needs to be talking to there boyfriend and girlfriends twenty four seven?! I get it "your in love" ooolalalaaa! But don't you run out of things to talk about?? Like honestly! If your saying to yourself that people in love always have something to talk about your on some serious drugs and you need to put them away and get back to reality. Talking to your boyfriend twenty four seven really is not the way to go...and OHMYGOD. I know that when I start talking to someone like every minute of everyday, and the next day i dont talk to them i go crazy and freak out...we're setting ourselves up for relationship failure. And you know whose fault that is?! Mr. Verizon, Mr. Sprint, and Mrs. & Mr. At&t.
Thats right,
I went there.
So ladies...put down the telefono for at least an hour or two tomorrow!!! Turn it off and go hangout with your friends at the beach. And when you turn it back on, dont answer any of the texts you recieved for half an hour.
I DARE YOU.
Or maybe he texted you first! You didnt even have his number and he texted you out of nowhere after you smiled at him in the hallway or something! Most likely your stalking him though and got it from your 'friend of a friend", lets be serious. But I'm getting ahead of myself!! Why is it that everyone needs to be talking to there boyfriend and girlfriends twenty four seven?! I get it "your in love" ooolalalaaa! But don't you run out of things to talk about?? Like honestly! If your saying to yourself that people in love always have something to talk about your on some serious drugs and you need to put them away and get back to reality. Talking to your boyfriend twenty four seven really is not the way to go...and OHMYGOD. I know that when I start talking to someone like every minute of everyday, and the next day i dont talk to them i go crazy and freak out...we're setting ourselves up for relationship failure. And you know whose fault that is?! Mr. Verizon, Mr. Sprint, and Mrs. & Mr. At&t.
Thats right,
I went there.
So ladies...put down the telefono for at least an hour or two tomorrow!!! Turn it off and go hangout with your friends at the beach. And when you turn it back on, dont answer any of the texts you recieved for half an hour.
I DARE YOU.
Well, well, well!
J: Call me at 11!
Me: okokok! (:
11 oclock comes around..i forget..then remeber at 11:15ish..I call and there it is!
That sound..
The sound he used to lie about.
The phone busy sound.
And the only reason I secretly freak out inside when I hear that sound is because no boy talks to another boy at 11:15 pm. For two hours...it was busy.
And last time i asked who he was talking to he said nobody and that he was sleeping thats why he didnt answer...
BUT THEN WHY WAS YOUR PHONE BUSY?!
RIDDLE ME THAT.
Me: okokok! (:
11 oclock comes around..i forget..then remeber at 11:15ish..I call and there it is!
That sound..
The sound he used to lie about.
The phone busy sound.
And the only reason I secretly freak out inside when I hear that sound is because no boy talks to another boy at 11:15 pm. For two hours...it was busy.
And last time i asked who he was talking to he said nobody and that he was sleeping thats why he didnt answer...
BUT THEN WHY WAS YOUR PHONE BUSY?!
RIDDLE ME THAT.
The sexes
OK. So I'm just going to go ahead and assume that everyone on the face of planet earth has a cell phone? Right? Right. And assuming this is true every girl who likes a boy, has "accidentally called/texted" a boy they fancy and "didnt mean to!". You send the occasional blank message..or accidentally but dial him when your in the car with your brother (who sounds like "another boy"). We all do it I'm sure...it's perfectly normal.
............UHM NO. hEllO lAdIeS!!!!!
That's creapy. STOP IT!
If he wanted to talk to you just as much as you wanted to talk to him he would be doing that exact same thing. Unfortunatly most boys are not as needy, or clingy as girls. If he wants to send you a blank message to get your attention he would do it...if he wanted to get in his car and butt-dial you while the musics on and their laughing there asses off together, (while he makes his significantly deeper than usual so you can hear the girls voice clearer...), HE WOULD.
But they never do. They would rather sit around in their underwear playing Call of Duty, and eating a sandwhich. It's true. As much as boys seem to like girls...they dont want to put in the effort that we as girls want them to! They lazy, annoying immature little boys who don't like to hear the words "Baby why arnt you listening to me?" or "GET OFF THAT STUPID GAME BEFORE I CRACK IT IN HALF." They just dont.
SO MAYBE, just maybe we shouldnt put so much pressure on relationships or even on chrushes. The more pressure, they more insecure they get and the more they block you out. But with more space! AAH HAA! Their the ones that call you a hundred times a day. Not the other way around.
AND THAT IS THAT.
............UHM NO. hEllO lAdIeS!!!!!
That's creapy. STOP IT!
If he wanted to talk to you just as much as you wanted to talk to him he would be doing that exact same thing. Unfortunatly most boys are not as needy, or clingy as girls. If he wants to send you a blank message to get your attention he would do it...if he wanted to get in his car and butt-dial you while the musics on and their laughing there asses off together, (while he makes his significantly deeper than usual so you can hear the girls voice clearer...), HE WOULD.
But they never do. They would rather sit around in their underwear playing Call of Duty, and eating a sandwhich. It's true. As much as boys seem to like girls...they dont want to put in the effort that we as girls want them to! They lazy, annoying immature little boys who don't like to hear the words "Baby why arnt you listening to me?" or "GET OFF THAT STUPID GAME BEFORE I CRACK IT IN HALF." They just dont.
SO MAYBE, just maybe we shouldnt put so much pressure on relationships or even on chrushes. The more pressure, they more insecure they get and the more they block you out. But with more space! AAH HAA! Their the ones that call you a hundred times a day. Not the other way around.
AND THAT IS THAT.
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
What a boy wants..and girls?
Everyday before school, you get up put the clothes on you laid out the night before..do your hair...make-up and put on the cutest shoes and accesories you can find.
WHY?!
I mean common! It's high school for god sakes. I know what your prolly saying..."I bet you do it too..."...and its true! I really do. Everyday is like a new competition. Will i look better than HER today? Will HE notice how pretty I look for him and how good I smell? Will they even notice the extra time i spent running my ass off this weekend just to loose three pounds before monday?! HA. No. No they will not. Wanna know why? Because they were prolly doing that same exact thing. Like that pretty blonde thats in your physics class..yeah shes tiny but only cause she runs three freaking miles after school everyday...Or what about that guy whose shirt matches the color of his eyes like impecably?..ha your right his mum prolly picked it out..but still! Why? And a boy! Why would a boy do that? Well I'll tell you why! Because boys are just as small insecure little girls on the inside as we are. I bet he's trying to impress the skinny ass blonde!!!!
SO...I guess this school year..not that I really want to think about it yet...I think everyone should just..stop. FOR ONE DAY. Like every friday..say screw that ish I'm wearing my uggs not my leather boots. I'm wearing studs not my long dangle earings. I'm wearing mascara..no eyeliner. And just feel good about it! Because truthfully, he's more likely to notice the girl whose naturally pretty than the one who has to try too hard to be noticed. <3
WHY?!
I mean common! It's high school for god sakes. I know what your prolly saying..."I bet you do it too..."...and its true! I really do. Everyday is like a new competition. Will i look better than HER today? Will HE notice how pretty I look for him and how good I smell? Will they even notice the extra time i spent running my ass off this weekend just to loose three pounds before monday?! HA. No. No they will not. Wanna know why? Because they were prolly doing that same exact thing. Like that pretty blonde thats in your physics class..yeah shes tiny but only cause she runs three freaking miles after school everyday...Or what about that guy whose shirt matches the color of his eyes like impecably?..ha your right his mum prolly picked it out..but still! Why? And a boy! Why would a boy do that? Well I'll tell you why! Because boys are just as small insecure little girls on the inside as we are. I bet he's trying to impress the skinny ass blonde!!!!
SO...I guess this school year..not that I really want to think about it yet...I think everyone should just..stop. FOR ONE DAY. Like every friday..say screw that ish I'm wearing my uggs not my leather boots. I'm wearing studs not my long dangle earings. I'm wearing mascara..no eyeliner. And just feel good about it! Because truthfully, he's more likely to notice the girl whose naturally pretty than the one who has to try too hard to be noticed. <3
The Real Intro To That Girl
HI!
So, I'm Steph...haha! I'm 17 years old and live in Ma. I've lived here my whole life, and antisipate on gettin the hell out of Ma as soon as possible. I live in a snobbie little town full of goodie goodie preps and brats, whose parents spoil them to no end. Siiick Liiife. I deal with the same stuff that girls deal with everyday tough and truth is..though we're all special we all have the same problems. I've been through alot of stuff that most of my family dosnt know about and hope to share my experiences of life with people who feel like asking. So follow and comment and I will most deffinatly get back to everyone asap!
THANKS<33
So, I'm Steph...haha! I'm 17 years old and live in Ma. I've lived here my whole life, and antisipate on gettin the hell out of Ma as soon as possible. I live in a snobbie little town full of goodie goodie preps and brats, whose parents spoil them to no end. Siiick Liiife. I deal with the same stuff that girls deal with everyday tough and truth is..though we're all special we all have the same problems. I've been through alot of stuff that most of my family dosnt know about and hope to share my experiences of life with people who feel like asking. So follow and comment and I will most deffinatly get back to everyone asap!
THANKS<33
Well this is knew...
So...honestly I'm not really the "Blogging" type. Or so I thought until about 15 minutes ago. I was casually sitting in my room, music blasting "Smile"- Avril Lavigne, and reading a text from a boy I've been talking to for about 3-3 1/2 months now. The funny and ironic thing wasssssss...I sure as hell was NOT smiling.
J: "I gtg. I'm bored."
...HA. WOOOW. OK. I thought getting off my bed. And I guess I just needed to take out the frustration of boys out on someone or something..and i started to think. I should blog about this ish..
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO here I am ladys and gents. Writting about something that really dosnt matter to the rest of the world. RIGHT?! No actually. Wrong. Because now i sit here typing this and thinking about all the girls that are "boring" there boyfriends around the world.
It's really NOT you. It's him. :)
J: "I gtg. I'm bored."
...HA. WOOOW. OK. I thought getting off my bed. And I guess I just needed to take out the frustration of boys out on someone or something..and i started to think. I should blog about this ish..
SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO here I am ladys and gents. Writting about something that really dosnt matter to the rest of the world. RIGHT?! No actually. Wrong. Because now i sit here typing this and thinking about all the girls that are "boring" there boyfriends around the world.
It's really NOT you. It's him. :)
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